LYNN'S DILEMMA: I am in shock after finding out my boyfriend has been entertaining men in my flat. Apparently he has been arranging meetings through the internet and inviting them to my home when I was working.
My boyfriend has stopped all contact with me since I confronted him. Do I talk to his parents and tell them what has been going on? I feel upset, betrayed and used.
JULIE'S DILEMMA: My daughter has been with her boyfriend for 18 months and they are planning to live together. The other night I went out on the town and her boyfriend picked me up.
I was very drunk and he started coming on to me. I was flattered and we had sex. I feel terrible about what I have done, but he is making it worse because he has stopped coming to the house and my daughter is getting suspicious. What should I do?
SHEREEN SAYS: You need to decide if you are going to tell your daughter before she finds out or talk to her boyfriend and tell him to forget it happened.
YOUR ADVICE:
Julie, you are not to blame because you were drunk. She needs to know what her boyfriend is really like.
MAUREEN, Glasgow
It is time she was big enough to own up to her shameless behaviour.
MADELINE, Glasgow
KATIE'S DILEMMA: I am in love with my neighbour, but he does not know how I feel.
He is single but sometimes has women staying over.
I will make any excuse just to talk to him. Sometimes when I know he is home and go to the door he does not answer it. I have also been taking pictures of him. Should I send an anonymous letter telling him he is gorgeous and that I am watching him?
SHEREEN SAYS: You are scary and need to calm down. You have become obsessed with him and should be grateful he has not called the emergency services to have you removed. Take up some sort of hobby and stop thinking about him.
YOUR ADVICE
She should back off. He is obviously not interested because he pretends not to hear her at
the door.
JANE, Glasgow
She should send him the anonymous letter - it will scare the living daylights out of him!
DEREK , Glasgow
What the heck is Katie on this is stalking. The guy should be running away.
DAVID, Glasgow
LAST WEEK'S DILEMMA: Family at war after I proposed to a granny
ALISTAIR'S DILEMMA: I HAVE fallen for a woman named Morag, who is 49 and has three grandchildren. I am 20.
I proposed to her last week and then told my mother.
Initially, she was happy for us - until she met Morag and realised how old she is.
She went to her house and told Morag to stay away from me. My mother says I am going to ruin my life and has given me an ultimatum it's Morag or my mother! What do I do?
SHEREEN SAYS: Your mum is freaking out because she thinks you are marrying a woman who is far too old for you. You need to live your own life and make your own mistakes - but mums have a funny way of being right!
YOUR ADVICE
Tell your mother to butt out. She is getting hysterical. If you love this granny then get married.
JOHN, Glasgow
I am 23 years older than my wife. Her family wanted to kill me, but we have been together 12 years and have two kids and are very much in love.
ANGUS, Glasgow
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